you lose 19 of your cookies and youre left with one. Now how do you feel about giving me that last cookie? How is your attitude different?\r\n The initial contact Many men say that making that first contact with a woman is the most difficult part of the entire dating process. There is good reason for that. Zoologists know that for any animal, meeting a new member of the same species is an anxiety-inducing event. Luckily, we have bigger brains than the average animal and can figure out ways around this. If youre already comfortable approaching people, great, but if you dont, the two-hit\r\ntechnique is the foolproof method for making that initial contact simple, anxiety-free, and effective. It works best in environments where people are stationary. My students and I have used it hundreds of time to great effect, and I cant recall a single time it didnt work. The two steps of the technique are the quick opener and the extended second contact:   1. Quick opener: Position yourself near the woman in question, and at the